We Are Surrounded by Images of War and Violence.
We Present an Image of Peace.
Long Day In Lawrence,
Kansas
Lauretta Hendricks Backus
is a staunch Dean supporter and a member of
the Women In Black anti-war organization.
I am involved with a
group in Lawrence, Kansas called "Women in Black."
Weekly, we have stood silently as a group wearing black clothing
and
veils, holding signs with the current death toll of both Iraqis
and
American service people in the Iraq war. Last Saturday we wanted
to put
our message out to a larger group of people. We decided that tailgate
parties before football games would provide the best bang for the
buck.
Held in the parking lot before games, they can attract thousands
of
people. Wearing our black garb and carrying our "Bush lies,
1000's Die"
and "1157 US dead, 15,000+ Iraqi Dead" signs, we slowly
and silently
walked through the crowd. It was the most frightening experience
of my
life. Screaming angry people yelled obscenities at us and called
us
traitors.
For 40 minutes we walked
through the most hostile environment I have
ever been in. I actually feared for my life at times. I thought
to
myself, "if just one person throws a stone at us, a riot would
ensue
and we would be killed." Was this what it was like for the
children trying
to go to school in Little Rock, Arkansas in the late 50's? I had
to
wonder if those silent watchers had doubts about the crowd they
were
with... seeing these big bulky men yelling at these eight small
women
walking silently through a jeering crowd, whose side did they really
want to be on?
Out of thousands of people,
only three offered encouragement. One women
walked beside me and said, "you're so brave, thanks for doing
this." I
didn't feel brave. An African-American man took his hat off as we
walked past, and said, "thank you ladies for doing this."
Then another many
screamed obscenities at us. The kind black man held him back and
said
something like, "I'm a Veteran. You don't know about war, man.
These
people are trying to help us." He continued to talk the guy
down as we
walked on. He was my hero.
We got through it, though
it took several hours to get my heart to stop
racing.
One of the most shocking
things about this incident was the hostility
shown toward us as women - countless sexual threats, and vulgar
references to our anatomy. There were even some women out there
yelling
out at us, although most just watched. One elderly blue haired lady
gave me the finger. Looking back, I can't help but think that if
this is
George Bush's America, he can have it. I'm going to keep working
on my
own America.
Lauretta Hendricks Backus
Women In Black
Read about WIB Ann Arbor (Michigan) and their silent procession
through
town* by Liz Cobbs of the Ann Arbor News
http://www.mlive.com/news/aanews/index.ssf?/base/news-
10/1097403146299010.xml